We plan/prep for just about everything around here. Some months don't require as much planning as others. January is a big planning month. We can't figure out why, but CJ struggles a lot this time of year. So there is planning and preparing for EVERYTHING....birthday parties, day trips, even a night at home. Planning is both visual and verbal. Recently we have started modeling as well. I read a great article about the effects of modeling. It was a god reminder that talking too much at CJ isn't helpful to him. He needs to see what a behavior or situation will look like. We have been trying this in regards to his stranger fear. Having him practice saying hi to the crossing guard or friends of ours that we may run into. Birthday parties typically take about 2 weeks to get CJ ready. First by contacting the place where the celebration is being held to ask questions, showing pictures, watching videos, and if we can going to the party place ahead of time to check it out. Then there is the planning for what is going to happen with reminders to be flexible if something happens that wasn't planned for. A few days leading up to the celebration is talking. CJ has become good about asking good questions to help calm his fears.
So now I better stop blogging and continue to prep for tomorrow's outing.