Invitations

Invitations - a rarity for this family.  Birthday parties, BBQs, dinner, play dates, outings......they just don't come our way.  Is it because we were invited places and I said no too many times? Is it because pets are involved and CJ is afraid?  Is it because we are no fun??? Is it because we live too far away and traffic is always bad?  Is it because of CJ?  In the past, it didn't really bother me. But this is the first summer CJ wants to be on the go...for which I am forever grateful.  No more begging and pleading (and bribing) him to go somewhere - he actually wants to go :)  But where do we go????  Do we just invite ourselves...hmmm.